sexuailty

[SHELUVS NO1!!!]

i always get in arguements w/my mom bout my sexuality she hate the fact dat i'm a lesbian but inever find n e one who has da same prob as me there parents mostly except it or don't no or bring it up!!!???

[Craig Turner]

I hope ya brought a sandwich and a book to read. LOL!

just seems so weird to me. It's like busting on your kid for having brown hair of being born a girl in stead of a boy. It's just who you are.

[Natti Sims]

My mother's the same. We always getting into a huge argument about sexuality. My mother believes that men and women are only supposed to be with each other and blahblahblah. I believe that it doesnt matter if its a woman and a man, a woman and a woman, or a man and man. It's beautiful either way. Everyone should accept that.

[MetalNerd91]

My mom actually taunts me with stuff like "oh gross, you're gonna be having sex with girls". Im pansexual, i could care less about gender. But that kind of shit coming from your mother is just stupid. The main source of your support and love pulling this crap gives them no excuse for respect.

[Christina faith]

my parents arent thrilled with me being a lesbian either but they cant hold it against you forever they eventually will come around and no matter what they do or say you are still their child and they will never stop loving you. try not to fret its who you are and i mean just try to stop fighting with ur mom because its hard to change peoples views just leave it be and dont push her into excepting it right away shes going to have to except it when shes ready which yeah it kinda sux but sometimes u cant rush things like these...everything will fall into place just be respectful and keep ur head up try to stay positive and to not let it get to u so much things will work out and i wish u the best of luck

[sabrina lynn campbell]

humm

[sabrina lynn campbell]

You know whats so funny all most all of the girls on this site that are lez are so pretty. And well how can I say this see I live in bg,ky and all the lez down here look like men. Is their surpost to be a bitch in the realashionship. Just saying If I was a lez I would have to date a lipstick lez. But their is none down here. lol

[Gwyn W]

wowww
I'd call it 'what you notice'. Like seroiuslly. there's no 'supposed to'. its what you want.

[sabrina lynn campbell]

Well im sorry to hear that. But your parents love you no matter what and they just want to make sure that you are not making a mistake and they want you to be happy. It is just shocking to a parent to find out that they lil girl is grown and can make up their own decisions. They just never thought that this would ever happen. They love you and you love them. It just might thake them a little time to relize that you are serious about your decision. Alot of people (girls) that I know experment with others and their parents just think that it is a fase. But if you ever find anyone that you truely love maybe then when she sees how happy you are she will be happy for you.Remember nothing or noone is perfect and we all deal with things differently. And all things happen for a reason.

[evilpuke]

I have kind of the opposite problem, my mom is not gay and I don't think bi, but she has been with a woman. We were getting shitfaced one time and she told me. I was thinking oh fucking great mom. Not that it bothers me but I don't want to hear about my mothers sex life.

[alaa atif]

lol i feel you XD well yeah my mom can have whatever sex life she wants but i wouldn't feel so keen about knowing it...sometimes it might get...disturbing...

[alaa atif]

Stand your ground. that's just it. never let them get through to you as long as you believe you're right-well not in all subjects we need opinions...from the right people, but sexuality? i doubt that a shift from one to another comes easy. your sexuality is your choice what ever it might be.
Normal decisions sometimes take a certain amount of strength. Hell, forget about decisions. Being yourself sometimes take a massive amount of struggle.
For the fact that she hates the fact that you're lesbian, i can only imagine how hard this is...as much as it hurts me, disgusts me to say this...if you live here, in Egypt, in my city, and it was known that you have a different sexuality...i give it 90% that you'd be murdered. it's that sad...
it wouldn't last forever, one day you'll break free. celebrate who you are in the correct place.

[Emanon]

I know what you're going through. I lived with my grandma up until a few months ago, my grandma is one of psychotic jesus freaks though. She knew I was a lesbian though I never admitted it to her, not only would she try to argue with me about it, she would tease me about it, hint at it, accuse me of it, and tell me I would go to hell over it, she would also refuse to believe it. In one lecture she would tell me gays and lesbians are disgusting, god doesn't like gays so anyone that is gay is going to burn in hell then ask me if I was going to heaven, ask me if one of my girl friends tried to do anything with me, make a lesbian pun then accuse me of having sex with my guy friend after school.