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i always get in arguements w/my mom bout my sexuality she hate the fact dat i'm a lesbian but inever find n e one who has da same prob as me there parents mostly except it or don't no or bring it up!!!???

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Permalink Reply by Shelby on December 13, 2008 at 8:51pm: I'm bisexual. I'm out. My mom knows this.. She makes little comments about being "normal" but i deal.. sometimes it hurts.. usually it hurts.. but i know who i am and i just deal.. Don't let her bug you.. if you're happy do whatever you need to.. : ); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SHELUVS NO1!!! on December 26, 2008 at 1:20pm: hehe cool thanxs!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by DommieGirl;; on December 13, 2008 at 9:15pm: Mothers are assholes, its like they have a manual on how to fuck with us.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SHELUVS NO1!!! on December 26, 2008 at 1:20pm: hehe i know rite!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SHELUVS NO1!!! on December 26, 2008 at 1:21pm: cool thanxs!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Maria Cordeiro on December 14, 2008 at 9:14am: well, my parents are not so happy either with the fact that i´m lesbian, but what can they do, right? besides, we are just the same inside. it´s only our preferences that change, that´s all.. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SHELUVS NO1!!! on December 26, 2008 at 1:19pm: yep dats true!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Joan Lucille on December 19, 2008 at 9:14pm: I'm bi, but I lean to girls. My parents never really had a problem with it, but the rest of my family did/does.
When I was in high school I joined the GSA (gay straight alliance). I met a lot of people who's parents were having trouble accepting them. If you're not already in a group... then you should be.
Plus, it's a good way to meet girls.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SHELUVS NO1!!! on December 26, 2008 at 1:19pm: hehehe dats cool but i don't think i have one of thoses; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Sarah on December 23, 2008 at 9:11pm: I'm bisexual, and my father (whom I don't speak to anymore) refused to even say that a person can be bisexual. It hurt, but the only thing I could do was not bring up sexuality around him at all. The only person in my family who knows is my little sister, and she is perfectly cool with it.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SHELUVS NO1!!! on December 26, 2008 at 1:18pm: aww i know how dat feels yea some people r cool with it but most aren't!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Charlotte Tracey on January 8, 2009 at 4:04pm: It's different for most people. I've never had to deal with having to come out to my parents, I'm straight, but I have a lot of friends that have luckily had good experiences with it.

Unfortunately people are only now seeing homosexuality as a normal thing. It used to be described as a unholy curse, a disorder, and then a perversion. A lot of people are still in that mindset, most of whom are parents. Most parents that are like that, who have children that turn out to be homosexual think they did something wrong, that they raised their kid wrong and because of that they "turned gay." Like the age out stereotype that guys with overbearing mothers are going to be gay.

It's stupid, it's annoying as hell. But, society is in a turning point. This won't be a problem forever. It might take a few generations, but there will be a time when being gay won't be a perversion, but just be another part of someone, and be accepted.; ▶ Reply to This