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I'm Out of the Closet..... But I Need Some Advice <333

Here's the thing... I came out of the closet to my mom some time ago and she was perfectly fine with it .... the thing is she still thinks I'm a virgin with chicks and I'm not... It makes me feel bad because she tells me everything and I do also but except for that and I don't even know if I should? ....it's not such a big deal but advice is greatly appreciated :]

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Permalink Reply by Craig Turner on August 1, 2009 at 5:20am: If you were straight and sexually active would you discuss it with her?

There ya go. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by evilpuke on August 14, 2009 at 4:19am: Nobody likes discussing their sex life with their mom.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Charlotte Tracey on August 28, 2009 at 10:35am: It's great to have a mother who is accepting like that. Unfortunately it is very rare. You should be as honest with her as you can. I know it seems weird and sometimes hard to talk to a parent about some things, but it really does make you both stronger, and bring you closer together.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by valerie artinger on September 1, 2009 at 10:11pm: you are lucky to have a mom like that but just be blunt and remind her of your sexuality. not rude, but honest ya know??? my mom would shit a brick if she found out i was bi... so you are lucky.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Gwyn W on September 2, 2009 at 3:09pm: IKR? mine's said so many times that its okay, NOT IIN HER HOUSE. *shrug* im not dating right now so atm its ok but the excuses... *sigh*; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Gwyn W on September 2, 2009 at 3:08pm: and you want to discuss your sex life with your mother why?'

Don't push it hun. she's accepting of you being gay, but don't reallly expect much more unless she's really libral about this kinda stuff; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jessica Zambada on September 8, 2009 at 5:24pm: yeah, i'm with everyone else. you don't really have to tell your mom. honestly, if i had sex, i wouldn't really wanna tell anyone. three things you don't talk about casually- politics, money, and sex... unless you're weird or making jokes. haha. but don't sweat it, no need to tell.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Charlotte Tracey on September 9, 2009 at 9:42am: A lot of people are really against talking to their moms about sex. I know a few people who are very open about those types of topics with their parents, and they have a great relationship. You're mom won't know what it's like to be gay, but she's still had a lot of experiences in her life, so I'm sure she has advice that can help you. After all, she raised you. When your mother can be your friend, and you talk to her about how your feeling and what your going through, it's very hard it find anyone else who knows you better and can help you more.; ▶ Reply to This