I can't believe I'm about to admit this; I'm still in love

[Leigh]

With an A-Hole.

I started dating him in the seventh grade. Then I moved, we did long distance for a year with two break ups (from my side) and then we took a year long break. I had an issue with this one situations - off topic and no I'm not getting into that - and he was the last person I could count on. We told eachother we still loved eachother a couple months later and ... then a few months later he stopped talking to me all together.

One day : "We're meant to be together, I love you."

The Next day : nothing

The Next day (after my prompting) : "I'm Busy."
For the Next month : "I'm busy."

Me, being the desperate little girl I am clung and kept trying to find out what I did wrong. My friend came back to talking to me (we lost contact for a bit, but he's a good kid and I luff him to death) finally made me realize that I did nothing wrong. It wasnt me.

Well this was a few months ago, I told him he can f*ck whoever he wants now (I knew he'd had about two or three new girlfriends already) and I was doing so well...until I realize I still love him.

So uhm...I know this is all stupid teenagery girl stuff but I don't know what to do and I'm afraid I won't be able to eat again...and now I'm just bitching.

Anyways, do any of you really believe that if you love someone than you can never stop?

[Cassie Taylor]

Oh man...thats a bad situation ><<br />
I know what its like to be there...

Personally, I would say always ALWAYS stay true to yourself. Do things for you and treat yourself with all the love you deserve. Also listen to your friends and family..those you know you can trust.

Dont shut out advice...just be strong with yourself? =]

Is this guy really worth it? Is he worth the pain?

If not, then move on, you are too good for that.

[Mr Monster]

How can you break up with somebody you "love". Apparently you don't love them very much do you?

Sounds like you don't know what the word love means. I can see why he doesn't want to be with you all the time. I wouldn't want to be with a fickle little girl with overhyped emotions either.

My suggestion? Quit crying, realize that you don't know what you're talking about and look into other people. He's not the A-Hole, you are.

And to address your final statement, puppy love doesn't count as "love". Get over it.

Fucking women act like men don't have emotions. Just because we SHELTER them and don't wear them on our skins doesn't mean we have them. Breaking up at a young age when you don't know any better, and even in later years when you really have a connection with somebody hurts.

Selfish creatures women are. "Is he worth the pain?" What about the pain you gave him? Did he deserve that? And now you're mad because he's returning the favor.

Pshaw... grow up.

[Cassie Taylor]

Mr. Monster, I do agree with you on this, actually.

Women, SOME women act like men do not have any feelings whatsoever...its complete bullshit..

Men feel just as much hurt, anguish and pain as women...

I would appreciate it if you didnt slander an entire gender though. Women can be selfish, of course. Men can be just as bad.

[Mr Monster]

Alright then, I'm sorry.

SOME women. :P

[evilpuke]

One day you will wake up and be sick and tired of it.