Crushes

[Jane Doe]

We've all had them, so you can share your experiences here, whether it's you on someone else or someone on you. And of course you can give advice to others about things.

I personally haven't had a good repertoire with crushes and such. I've never had a boyfriend, and all my past crushes have sorta fell flat and the one person I told didn't like me, so I'm gun shy now.

[Xev]

Ah crushes. I remember I had a few in high school, until I got to know the person and found out that they may look pretty, but that's all they had going for them. So I learned that what I look for in a person is more than just a pretty face or nice hair. Intelligence, personality, and confidence are more important to me. (although a hot car helps to!) hahaha

I think crushes are what prepares us for adulthood, because we figure out what qualities attracts us to another person.

[Charlotte Tracey]

I used to have a crush on this guy I went to school with. It was one of those "watched from afar" crushes, because I wasn't very social, so I didn't get to talk to him much. Eventually I semi-forced myself into his general circle of friends, and he asked me out. We went out for about 6 months, but about 2-3 months into the relationship I wanted out. He was such a brat, and he smelled, he was too much of a mama's boy, and he made me uncomfortable sometimes with how quickly wanted to take the relationship. He still texts me every now and again, wanting to be friends, but I'm not even interested in that.

[a muse mental]

I ignore them now. I find them dangerous, for the way I live.

[viini]

I'm really beginning to really hate crushes. I've probably had...3 this school year. My last crush...well, it didn't go so well. Found out he's a serious ass who's in to someone I hate. The guy I like now...I think I'm in denial about it. And I would be laughed at by my friend's 'cause he's a year younger than me. But he's amazing, and I don''t even know him! Ugh, school crushes are distressing. They never last more than a couple months. And guy's at my school tend to be dicks. No one wins.