my x

[sabrina lynn campbell]

Well me and my x still talk but now im datine one of his friends. But its not my fault I didnt know that they weir friends. He has been gone for about a year and 4 months now but he still calls me and says I love you and the feelings are their but my b/f dose not know that I am still talking to him. This makes me feel like a horable person. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

p.s I will post some pics of my x. Hes so cute check it out ladies!!

[Reneaux Ruffin]

Well, umm either way, you're leading somebody on. You know just like the rest of us that you can't be with them both, but you still let your ex speak to you in a manner only appropriate for those that are dating(i tell my girlfriends i love them all the time but you seem to be talking bout the OTHA kind of love). You say the feelings are still there which means that you prolly wanna be with him still anyways. Buuut i can't really say what i would do because i don't know why you two broke up. If it were me though, i'd let him go. The past is the past and your current boyfriend needs to know that the two of you still talk, because if he finds out without you telling him, it will not look good on your part. Especially since you say ya'll still have feelings for each other.

[sabrina lynn campbell]

Well I didnt think that anyone would read this let alone reply to it. Well my x called me last night and I felt so guilty that I had to tell my current boyfriend. And when I did he acted like he didnt care. And yes hes the kind of mocho man who dose not show his feelings. But when we are talking about my x's he gets so jealous. And I was telling him to truely tell me how he feels about it. He said that it was my past and that I am with him now. And that fernando(my x) is never going to come back. That kinda hurt. We did not break up. He was 19 and he got home sick he is mexican so he had to go back to mexico. I loved him so I let him go. And I know that he still cares for me. So I dont know what to do.

[evilpuke]

First, the guy you are dating is getting shafted big time because all this is going on behind his back. If this goes on for longer and gets bigger, it will hurt, then you will feel horrible. If I were you I would try to take two weeks where you had NO contact with either one of them. Hopefully in that time you can come to a decision. I would hate to be your current boyfriend. He isn't jealous of the fact you had a boyfriend, he is jealous of what you two obviously shared. I might be to cautions but after sixteen months, might there be an underlying motive as well?

[sabrina lynn campbell]

Well see this is the thing fernando my x was my first love and we didnt break up but he has been gone for almost 2 years. So I dont know why I still care for him or even for that matter why would he care for me. And I think that gaby my bf is just mad b/c he is not my first love and he has told me that he wishes that I would of never dated him.And see the thing is that he said that he knew fernando that they worked,lived,and hung out togather. He know that we talk but he dosent know that fernando still loves me.