Teasing. Is It for Fun? or for Destruction

[WrestlerGirl]

Teasing is something that all people go through.What are Your Stories?

[WrestlerGirl]

RIGHT ON CHICK! WE ARE ALL B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L.L!!!!!!!

[Goddess of MindXpansion]

Yeah, I was ostrasized by my entire community and I get "teased" and harassed just about everywhere I go. I can't really say that I care anymore. I'm still who I am and if people don't like it too bad. I will not change. People can say what they want. Fuck them. I walk down the street with my head held high and its just like too bad I'm here. I exist. I'm alive. So the rest of society can just deal with it.

[Damiana BloodDagger]

teasing is only fun if it's the naughty kind... yep there goes my mind again. :-P

[Ginger Snapped]

Hehe. . . Yes, I agree.

[Fallen Angel]

I was bullied alot at my high school. Most off the time it was just another day so it was not so bad. It seemed kids who got bullied, bullied me. It even came to the point where one day these girls started getting abusive towards me, and started giving deaths treats about how they were going to be cutting my throat in my sleep. Along with some really disturbing threats about getting some guys they knew to beat and rape me. I felt violated enough by these threats, Kinda like my space was complettly shattered, and torn into amillion peices. And I was so scared and angery. They made sure I felt just as bad though by telling me I deserved all these threats to come true and no one would want to help me cause they don't care. And even said they would do worse things if I told the police. People say it's my familys history with metnal illness that made me become an angery, depressed and suicidual after that experience off abuse at my high school. But I think those girls did trigger my probblem. And them all leaveing the school did not make the probblem go away. I was Still haveing very violent by nightmares after that. And even as a adult am still haunted by violent nightmares and feelings off being worthless. And it's funny I do know that after those girls went to other schools they were ALL bullied themselves. But even now dispite that, It seems that The damage was already done a long time ago. I remember always trying to prove I did not deserve to be hurt like those threats suggested, But it seemed I always was doing something wrong. And in he end be told that my life is to good for a terrible person like me, and I there for deserve to die. People who just know me or who also knew these girls say judging by their insults and the way they acted that they were threatened by me out off jelously. And that they felt better by hurting me. Because they felt powerfull and in control. And in a way it was the worst thing to happen to me, but also the best thing to happen to me, cause dispite my nightmares and down moments, I am a better person now than I was before those girls decided to take there bullying a little too far. But at the same time I always have had a wish to just forget and for someone to release me from these memorys and nightmares.

[evilpuke]

I was teased, not as much, but I remember to be called harshly a dirt bag, stuff I still feel over ten years later. Now I'm six foot two at 250 pounds. Wish I could take these people grab them by their necks and put them against the wall. Tell them I can see the fear in their eyes and laugh at them. Violence may not be the answer but it has a place in this world. I feel mad now.

[maximum deminic diabolic soul]

i get teased a little, like one day in fresh man year of high school the teacher was, giving us a example for something he said ask jarde if she did her hair. and then the girl that was sittimg besides me gonna say ask tameka that and start laughing, i was like i did't do anything to them, the girl behind me were laughing to. and one time i was in the gym room with my class, everybody were play volloyball except for me. it was like five people to the side playing i was sitting down then get hit with the ball. At first i though they did't mean to but then they did it again this time i knew it was on purpose, they were looking at me to and did't even bother to say sorry or excuse me or us. it just isn't right to treat people like that, that's not making things any better.

[ej]

wellll!!! i use to get mad fun of alotttt just because a part of my body.!!!! i felt like i wanted to go hide under a rock an stay there for ever! im not sayin wut it is.but it effected my whole lifeeee!!!!! i jus had to get an operation that cost me 8k out of my pocket so i dont get made fun of ne moreeeee....iv gone to hell an back with thiss..

[Heather]

9 times out of 10 the people that will tease you are simply trying to make themselves feel better about the shit on there own door step's.
No one likes to look at themselves and there own character defects so they will take your inventory instead of there own.....I was teased in grade school and High School, but I can honestly say today that if there was someone I felt was lower on the food chain then what I thought I was.... I teased them too.
I believe we can play the victim and then turn around and cause the same damage. It is human nature and we can be assholes.

[Michele]

Hey I saw a chance to reply to this and thought I would share my opinions.I was never made fun of and also was never the type to bully someone because of their looks.Now if someone touched me that was a different story...But in high school I was a pretty preppy girl who always liked the people that most others considered unconventional or maybe ugly I don't know.The only problem was when I flirted with these people they always thought I was teasing them.They would say stuff like "Why would this girl want to hang out with me? This has to be a mean joke!" At first I would be hurt but then I would think it was messed up that we lived in a society that ruined people's self esteem like this.I mean it has to be pretty bad when someone has been bullied to the point where they feel they cannot possibly deserve a date with an attractive person! I think it's great that this site can act as a support system for people with this issue.Thank you for starting this thread

[Jane Doe]

yeah, something like that's been happening to me lately :/

I'll explain later, it's 2 AM and I'm tired

[Jessica]

Been teased for not having a huge selection of clothing and people would talk about how i wear the same clothes alot. But i bought new clothes because i got sick of it